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The Rainbow That Once Flew

If you had walked toward the city bus parking in Thimphu anytime before 2024, you might have noticed
a rainbow-colored flag gently swaying from the balcony of the once well-known Osang building. That flag, vibrant and full of meaning, marked the quiet but powerful presence of Bhutan’s LGBT+ movement in the heart of the capital. But now, that flag no longer flies there.

We were asked by the Civil Society Organization (CSO) Authority to take it down. The reason? Our office, they explained, is neither a consulate, embassy, nor religious institution and as such, is not permitted to display any flag other than Bhutan’s national flag. While this directive is not codified into law, it seems to fall under an unwritten. Out of respect and to avoid confrontation, we complied without protest and removed the flag.

But this request did not come in isolation. It came at a time when our organization was already grappling with another long-standing challenge, our ongoing struggle to register as a Civil Society Organization. For years, we have tried to navigate a system that has been slow, unclear, and often unresponsive to the needs of emerging, community-led movements like ours. Despite our contributions we remain without official status.

The request to take down the rainbow flag felt symbolic in more ways than one. It was not just the removal of a piece of fabric from a balcony, it was a reminder of the barriers we continue to face as a community seeking inclusion, and visibility.

So why did we put the flag up in the first place?

The rainbow flag is more than a decorative item. It is a globally recognized symbol of the LGBT+ community, one that represents diversity, solidarity, acceptance, and pride. For us, it was a signal of presence. Our office, located in the heart of Thimphu’s busiest public area, stood as a silent witness to the everyday lives of hundreds of Bhutanese, students, workers, families, travellers many of whom passed by without ever knowing what was inside that building.

But for some, especially members of the LGBT+ community, that flag was a lifeline. It was a quiet message of hope that said: You are seen, You are valid and You belong. In a society where coming out is still difficult and often unsafe, where many suffer in silence, where acceptance is still conditional or withheld that visibility matters and it does deeply for many.

The rainbow flag stood for those who were not ready to speak their truth out loud. It stood for those who had been rejected by their families, misunderstood by society, or forced to hide who they truly are. It represented strength, resilience, and the power of community. It marked our office not just as a workplace, but as a safe space a home for those in search of belonging.

Taking it down was painful. But it doesn’t mean the spirit of that flag is gone.

Our fight for recognition, inclusion, and equity continues, in the stories we tell, the services we provide, the spaces we create, and the lives we touch. The rainbow may no longer fly from our balcony, but it continues to live in our hearts, in our work, and in our vision for a more just and compassionate Bhutan.

The flag may be gone, but its colors linger, in every conversation, every act of solidarity, every heartbeat refusing to be silenced. Together, we are the spectrum no authority can dim.

 


 

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